We grieve because we love.
I have just returned from my sixth trip volunteering in Calais to alleviate the suffering of the refugees there. The following contains my initial reflections on the experience.    We  all build narratives in order to make sense of the world and to  interact with others in it. But it is important to remember that the  narratives are superimposed, that they come from one particular vantage  point and that they have arbitrary starting and finishing points.   Take the  refugee situation in Calais. Is it just about Calais? Not really, no.  Every time there is an eviction in Paris or Brussels, a few days later  there is a wave of new arrivals in Calais. Paris and Brussels have their  own inbound streams of influence. And every time refugees are forcibly evicted    Calais by night   from Calais, as many were this week, the problem is simply exported to another French location. It's also about the UK because it is  our border. Historical decisions about where to put the border places  the...